Enough Lectures

PASS IT ON

People with lupus get enough lectures. Agreed? If someone is having a rough time, please empathize first. Then (and only then!) share advice. For one, if someone doesn't feel understood, they won't listen to your advice. More importantly, when someone is in a difficult place emotionally, lupus symptoms are nearly impossible to control. The act of accepting and supporting someone may be a more important step towards a person better handling lupus than all of the advice in the world.‪

~‎LupusInColor~‬